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Lowry, Lois. A Summer to Die. New York, N.Y.: Laurel Leaf, 1977.
This book details sisters', Meg and Molly, relationship. Molly is beautiful and popular, while Meg is shy and sees herself as plain looking. One night everything changes when Molly is rushed to hospital. The book then follows the family's life as Molly's condition worsens and she eventually dies. Meg's friendship with her neighbours sustains her, especially the birth of Ben and Maria's baby. Some aspects of the book betrays its age, but the timeless message more than compensates.
SIBLING CANCER
McCarthy, Maureen. Chain of Hearts. Ringwood, Vic.: Penguin Books, 1991.
Australian
While Sophie was driving her boyfriend and his siblings around, including her best friend, the car was hit by an out-of-control driver. Sophie reacts very badly to the accident and withdraws into herself and her room. Sophie is smoking, eating junk food and listening to loud music. In despair her mother sends her to her Aunt Fran, living at the family home. During the course of Sophie's stay Sophie is brought back into the world. However, many family quarrels and rifts are brought into the open and finally, the path to closure is found. Eventually Sophie has the courage to visit her boyfriend and his family and everything seems to be fine.
PEER ACCIDENT
McDaniel, Lurlene. Baby Alicia is Dying. New York, N.Y.: Bantam, 1993.
Desi volunteers at Childcare, a hospice for babies born HIV positive. Desi connects with Alicia, who is eight-months-old. Desi feels unloved by her parents, believing that they, her mother particularly, expend all of their love on the oldest child, Valerie. Desi learns this is because her mother didn't want to feel attached to Desi due to the cot death of Desi's brother who died before Desi was born. Old wounds are healed through Desi's experience with Alicia. Alicia's condition worsens and she eventually dies of pneumonia. Many facts about AIDS and HIV are woven into the novel.
PEER AIDS
McDaniel, Lurlene. The Girl Death Left Behind. New York, N.Y.: Bantam, 1999.
This is the story of Beth's survival after the death of her family in a car accident, on the way to a staff picnic, an event Beth missed as she was sick. Beth goes to live with her uncle, aunt and same-aged cousin. Strong feelings run between Beth and her cousin, Terri, especially jealousy and anger. Beth suffers from a measure of survivor guilt. Slowly all adjust to the changes and develop into a family together.
SIBLING PARENT ACCIDENT
McDaniel, Lurlene. Starry, Starry Night: Three Holiday Stories. New York, N.Y.: Bantam, 1998
The first short story in this collection, "The Christmas Child," tells of Melanie's joy over the birth of her sister and the loss of her at four-days-old, as she is anencephalic. Melanie's friends offer comfort and support during this time. Melanie comes to realise that baby Jennifers life did have meaning, however short it was, as "[w]e loved her because she belonged to us. To our family."
SIBLING INFANT DEATH
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McHugh, Mary. Young People Talk about Death. New York, N.Y.: Franklin Watts, 1980.
This book is based upon interviews with American High School students, some of whom were studying death as a mini-elective. Chapters include: Talking About Death; Growing Old; Moral and Ethical Dilemmas; Suicide; Burial or Cremation; Telling Children About Death; What Happens When You Die?. The chapters on Growing Old and Moral and Ethical Dilemmas are especially valuable as they are not normally discussed. The latter chapter discusses living wills, the use of marijuana as pain relief and abortion. An interesting book for the questions it raises.
NON-FICTION
Mahon, Kate. Just One Tear. Pymble, N.S.W.: Angus & Robertson, 1992.
Australian
Written in diary form this book tells the story of a 13-year-old boy following the murder of his father, when he was the only witness. The diary offers a way of honestly exploring the emotions felt, and the way his mother withdraws into herself. The just one tear of the title is the number of tears he shed, showing that grief can be deep, but with no outward signs.
PARENT MURDER
Mayfield, Sue. I Carried You on Eagle's Wings. London, U.K.: Scholastic, 1995.
This is the story of Tony's life as his mother enters the final stages of life before she dies of pneumonia, a result of her multiple sclerosis. It also tells of Tony's relationship with Clare, and his rescuing of an injured seagull. Tony's emotions are honestly described, including his anger at his mother for not being like other mothers. He is also angry at those people who expect him to tell them how he feels, or who expect to be reassured that his mother is fine, when it's not the case. The story ends on the morning of his mother's death. The title comes from Tony mother's favourite Bible verse, Isaiah 40:29-31:
He gives vigour to the weary, new strength to the exhausted.
Young men may grow weary and faint, even in their prime they may stumble and fall;
but those who look to the Lord will win new strength, they will grow wings like eagles; they will run and not be weary; they will march on and never grow faint.
PARENT ILLNESS
Mazer, Norma Fox. After the Rain. Bath, U.K.: Chivers Press, 1989.
Rachel has not always had an easy relationship with her grandfather, but in his last months Rachel spends more time with Grandad Izzy. The family's grief is expressed and memories of Izzy are shared.
GRANDPARENT ILLNESS
Nicholls, Bron. Mullaway. Ringwood, Vic.: Penguin Books, 1986.
Australian
This book follows a year in Mull's life, on in which her mother becomes ill and is bedridden, is hospitalised and then dies of cancer. Mull, at 16 years old, takes over running the family, but this has its ups-and-downs. Her father and youngest brother are heavily involved in a Christian fundamentalist church, which Mull and her older brother, Steven, do not agree with. As her mother comes closer to death, Mull's father becomes more involved in the parenting of the family, eventually taking over after the death, and Mull's breakdown over all the work and expectations placed upon her.
PARENT CANCER
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Park, Barbara. Mick Harte was Here. New York, N.Y.: Apple Soup Books, 1995.
Told by Mick's sister, Phoebe, this is the story of Mick and his bicycle accident which resulted in his death through a head injury. The story of their relationship is told in flashbacks interspersed with current events. Phoebe's mother withdraws into herself, leaving the running of the household to Nana from Florida. Phoebe feels guilty because she hadn't taken Mick's bike home as he had wanted her to. Phoebe's father lists the number of If Onlys that could have saved Mick's life. Phoebe leaves a lasting memory of Mick by inscribing Mick Harte Was Here in fresh concrete at school, a legacy of an activity when they were young.
SIBLING ACCIDENT
Peck, Richard. Father figure. New York, N.Y.: Puffin, 1996.
Originally published in 1978 some aspects of the book show its age. Jim is 17 and has been his younger brother Byron's father figure for eight years, since their parent's divorce when Byron was only months old. Their mother suffers from a terminal illness and commits suicide knowing there is no further medical treatments available. The boy's grandmother doesn't believe in expressing emotions, hence the boys' shut down and don't express their emotions. They are sent to Florida to stay with their father, a man they have only seen once since the divorce, at their mother's funeral. Jim and Byron begin to express their grief and to adapt to the new family dynamics.
PARENT SUICIDE
Peck, Richard. Remembering the Good Times. New York, N.Y.: Delacorte Press, 1985.
Buck, Kate and Trav have been good friends for years, now they are 16. Told from Buck's point of view, this book shows Trav's mental deterioration which results in his suicide. Kate and Buck are devastated and can't grieve and let go. In a public meeting, to get to the reason for Trav's suicide, Buck finally brakes down.
PEER SUICIDE
Pershall, Mary K. You Take the High Road. New York, N.Y.: Dial Books, 1990.
Australian
A powerful novel, set in Australia, which details Samantha's joy in the birth of her baby brother and his short life. It then follows Samantha's descent into grief and her subsequent distancing of the rest of the world. Samantha's mother's guilt over the baby's death is realistically portrayed. Sam slowly pulls out of her grief, but suffers relapses which are dealt with sympathetically by her English teacher. Realistic and compelling.
SIBLING ACCIDENT
Pevsner, Stella. How Could You Do it, Diane? New York, N.Y.: Clarion Books, 1989.
A realistic portrayal of a family after the suicide of the oldest child, Diane. Told from her sister's, Bethany, perspective it details the year following Diane's death including the younger children's behavioural problems, such as aggressive behaviour, bedwetting and nightmares. Also discussed is the family's counselling sessions. A year later Bethany can say "[I]t's time to say goodbye to you and your dying. Your place is in our past. Our place is in the present."
SIBLING SUICIDE
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